James 1:19
19Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath: 20For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.
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Wise sayings, coming out of the mouth of the uninitiated; is like clouds bringing forth no rain.
If you are swift to hear, you listen ready to take action.
If you are slow to speak, you contemplate your answers righteously, according to the righteousness of the Holy Law.
If you are slow to wrath, you have to exhaust the fact the Christ said, forgive your brother 70×70. And 1,000 blows, still won't change a fool.
With that said, wrath is a last possible option.
So you can't be preachin, slow to speak; but your running your mouth all night.